Everyone has their own thinking and logical way of life, we don't Nen experience of others to building their own life. Don't put the success of others into their own life pressure. Life is life, maintaining a healthy life, and to live happy - this is the meaning of life. Remember that maupassant's remark, the life can not so good as you think, but also not as bad as you think. Therefore, we could live it well, heaven and earth, rightness get parents, rightness get social, rightness get yourself.